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Daily Devotions - Entries from November 2011

TueTuesdayNovNovember29th2011 Wednesday, November 30


We strive to live purposeful, meaningful, significant lives. Wherever we live, whatever we do, we yearn for life to be more than just eating, sleeping and working. Even Christians often struggle with feelings of doubt; wondering if their lives amount to anything. Into this confusion Paul’s words to the Colossians bring some comfort:

And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God (Col. 1:10)

Oh to live a life considered “worthy of the Lord!” This is what we were created to do! We live for positive affirmation and feedback and Paul says the way to please God is to walk in this manner. But what specifically does that entail?

In this letter Paul draws out two components, “bearing fruit” and “growing.” This is the second time in the first few lines of this letter that Paul has used the phrase “bearing fruit and growing” and there is a definite connection.

“All over the world this gospel is bearing fruit and growing, just as it has been doing among you…” (Col.1:6).

“…bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God…” (Col. 1:10)

The gospel is at work around the world. God is growing His kingdom. But the impacts of that are felt in our immediate lives. Just as the gospel is at work around the world, re-creating what was lost to the infection of sin, so to the gospel is at work in us, re-creating us from the inside out. The overflow of God’s salvation at work in us is that the Spirit will bear fruit in our lives (Gal. 5:22-23) and we will continue to grow in our knowledge and understanding of God.

Ultimately the path to significance has nothing to do with our work and everything to do with our identity. We are children of the King and the deeper we go in that relationship, the more our lives will glorify God.  

TueTuesdayNovNovember29th2011 Tuesday, November 29


Last week many of us gorged ourselves on Thanksgiving food. We filled our bellies full of turkey and mashed potatoes and pie, and may still be eating leftovers today. We’re physical creatures, and we have physical needs, so it’s easy to find ourselves overly focused on things like food and drink.

On more than one occasion Jesus pulled the disciples up short, pointing out that while they, too, were looking to fill their stomachs, He was trying to fill their souls. As He reminds the crowd following him after the feeding of the five thousand,

“I tell you the truth, you are looking for me, not because you saw miraculous signs but because you ate the loaves and had your fill. Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you. On him God the Father has placed his seal of approval.” (John 6:26-27, NIV)

And then just a few verses later,

“I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirsty. But as I told you, you have seen me and still you do not believe. All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day.” (John 6:35-40, NIV)

Paul’s prayer for the Colossians recognizes that the basic human tendency is to be focused on physical needs, so he changes the focus. Whether they realize it or not, the most significant need they have is spiritual, and therefore the most impactful prayer he can offer them is that they, “be filled with the knowledge of [God’s] will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding” (Col. 1:9).

And what is that will of God? Not guidance about which house to buy or school to attend, but that all would come to salvation in and through Jesus Christ. 

MonMondayNovNovember28th2011 Monday, November 28


This week we prepare for Pastor Rob’s sermon by continuing our reading in Colossians 1:9-14 (NIV)

9 For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding. 10 And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, 11 being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and joyfully 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light. 13 For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.

Prayer is without a doubt one of the hardest things that we do as Christians. Which is strange, because there is nothing physically challenging to it, nor is the concept particularly hard to grasp. Yet, despite all of our good intentions, prayer so often eludes us. We read books about it, we think a lot about how we should be doing more of it, we even ask for prayer in being more consistent with it. But the bottom line is that it remains a significant challenge in our lives.

Here in this passage Paul is open about his extensive prayers for the Colossians, saying “we have not stopped praying for you and asking God to…” Even allowing for a little bit of rhetorical flourish on Paul’s part, as we read the content of his prayer it is clear that he is serious about his claim to be praying for them a lot.

If you are struggling with prayer, I suggest you read a fantastic book called, “A Praying Life,” by Paul Miller. This book has helped me to grow in my prayer life more than any other that I’ve read on this topic. And take your first stab at a renewed prayer life right now, by praying for God’s help to pray. If you have children you might even consider praying Paul’s prayer over them. Maybe you have a friend or someone you know who would be encouraged by receiving this same prayer in a hand-written letter.

Don’t let your previous failures with prayer hold you back. Prayer is perhaps the primary way we develop and maintain our relationship with God. So focus less on the activity of prayer itself and more on the Glorious One who longs to connect with you in prayer. 

FriFridayNovNovember25th2011 Friday, November 25


Today is often referred to as “Black Friday.” After a day devoted to thankfulness comes a day devoted to conspicuous consumption. Certainly, many may use this day to buy gifts for others, so we can’t write the entire day off as a celebration of selfishness, but the shopping frenzy is disturbing nonetheless.

In the first century Paul did not have to deal with “Black Friday” and although he is often quite blunt in his critiques and exhortations, in Colossians 1:3-8 we see a different emphasis entirely:

 3 We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, 4 because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all the saints— 5 the faith and love that spring from the hope that is stored up for you in heaven and that you have already heard about in the word of truth, the gospel 6 that has come to you. All over the world this gospel is bearing fruit and growing, just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and understood God’s grace in all its truth. 7 You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, 8 and who also told us of your love in the Spirit.

The gospel, the good news that turned the lives of the Colossians upside down, was brought to them by Epaphras, Paul’s “dear fellow servant.” While others may have sought for selfish gain, Epaphras was apparently dedicated to the greater cause of spreading the gospel. His heart, his focus, his passion was teaching those in Colossae about Jesus. As we close our week and prepare to come together again to worship God on Sunday, where are we investing our time and energy? Are we more focused on getting a great deal on something or sharing the gospel with the people God has placed all around us? 

ThuThursdayNovNovember24th2011 Thursday, November 24


When it comes right down to it, most of the time we really just don’t give God enough credit. Sure, we thank Him for the food we are about to eat, and for healing our colds, and for solving whatever little problems have been bothering us recently. But our lives are not really built around thankfulness. We acknowledge God a lot, we give Him a tip of our hats, but if we’re honest, a lot of the time our attitude is one of self-sufficiency. “Don’t worry God, I got this one. I’ll call you if I need you.” We have this dreadful tendency to treat him like an aged parent whose advice and guidance we listen to politely but feel like we don’t really need.

So Thanksgiving rolls around again and sometimes we just can’t quite get there. We may feel like it should be a powerful time of remembrance, but struggle to come up with anything to thank Him for.

The best path to thankfulness is through the gospel. We were created to be in perfect relationship with God, but through our own sin that fellowship was lost forever, and sin entered the world. Far from being some abstract theological concept, sin is painfully real and uncomfortably present. It has grown and spread across the globe and throughout time, infecting every single nook and cranny of creation, wreacking havoc wherever it goes; destroying, maiming, killing.

That bad news should drive us to our knees in grief and mourning. For without God there is absolutely no hope whatsoever. No amount of clean living, good deeds or human ingenuity can solve the problem.

But the amazing news, the news that gives us cause for celebration and thanksgiving, is that all is not lost! For, “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). The sin that separated us from God was paid for once and for all on the cross. It was there that Jesus died to give me life. Even if every single thing in my life is going wrong. Even if every single prayer seems to go unanswered. Even if everyone seems to have abandoned me. There is not one thing in this world that can separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus.

As we dig into pie, laugh with family or simply sit on the couch and watch more football, the grace of God revealed to us in Jesus is the single most significant and important piece of news we should be thankful for today.

At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. 4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, 6 whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7 so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life. 8 This is a trustworthy saying. And I want you to stress these things, so that those who have trusted in God may be careful to devote themselves to doing what is good. These things are excellent and profitable for everyone. (Titus 3:3-8)

WedWednesdayNovNovember23rd2011 Wednesday, November 23


We continue our focus on Colossians 1:6-8 today, quoted below from the NIV:

All over the world this gospel is bearing fruit and growing, just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and understood God’s grace in all its truth. 7 You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, 8 and who also told us of your love in the Spirit.

There are also relationships that God has given us outside the home, with neighbors, co-workers and other friends. More than simply trying to be positive role models in their lives, we are to be seeking ways to draw them into the Kingdom of God.

It can take a long time to build and develop the depth of relationship necessary to share the gospel, but what steps are you taking towards that goal? Are you looking for ways to engage people in spiritual conversations? Are you sharing your own faith freely and openly? Again, if you need help in this area, call or email Marie Allison, Director of Evangelism and Connect ministries. She would love to help you take the next step towards sharing your faith with those around you.

TueTuesdayNovNovember22nd2011 Tuesday, November 22



Today we continue our mini-study on Colossians 1:6-8, quoted below from the NIV:

All over the world this gospel is bearing fruit and growing, just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and understood God’s grace in all its truth. 7 You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, 8 and who also told us of your love in the Spirit.

Yesterday we noted the personal aspect of gospel growth, but this growth isn’t simply about the personal—it also spreads out in the immediate context into which God has placed us. That means that if God has blessed you with a family, there is work to be done in seeing the gospel grow and spread and bear fruit within that family.

Parents are to take an active role in discipling their children, teaching them to know, love, worship and obey God. It may sound daunting, but if you need help or guidance in this area, call or email Vance Frusher, our Children’s Pastor. He would love to help you take the next step in discipling your children at home.

Grandparents can likewise have a profound spiritual influence on their grandchildren, aunts and uncles on nieces and nephews, husbands on their wives. The family presents a dense and complex network of relationships that can and should be a fertile ground for spiritual growth and development as we love God personally and seek to see others grow in their love for God as well.

MonMondayNovNovember21st2011 Monday, November 21
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This week we move a little deeper into Colossians as we explore Colossians 1:6-8, quoted below from the NIV:

All over the world this gospel is bearing fruit and growing, just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and understood God’s grace in all its truth. 7 You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf, 8 and who also told us of your love in the Spirit.

Paul’s understanding of the growth and spread of the gospel is expansive, covering every sphere of life. While the gospel is indeed going out into all corners of the earth, it also penetrates deep into our hearts (“just as it has been doing among you”). There is a personal element to gospel growth that can never be over-looked. The gospel first takes root in our own hearts, in our own lives, transforming us from the inside out.

When did that happen for you? How is the gospel continuing to challenge and transform you personally? What is the Spirit convicting you of today? Where is God pushing you to be growing personally? What personal spiritual disciplines do you need to be working on this month?

FriFridayNovNovember18th2011 Friday, November 18

1 Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,

 2 To the saints and faithful brethren in Christ who are at Colossae: Grace to you and peace from God our Father.

 3 We give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you, 4 since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and the love which you have for all the saints; 5 because of the hope laid up for you in heaven, of which you previously heard in the word of truth, the gospel 6 which has come to you, (NASB)

Hope, heaven, and the gospel. As we approach the last verse in this opening section of Paul’s letter we hit a string of theologically heavy words. Is this hope something vague, akin to a wish or general desire for things to be different or better? Or is this hope something more, something deeper and more profound?

Turn forward in your Bible and read 1 Peter 1:1-5. Paul is writing to the Colossians about the same kind of hope Peter would later write about to his audience. It is a hope that is set apart for us in heaven, something permanent, eternal, immovable, unshakeable. A firm ground to stand on, a solid place to live out of.

And how and where did this Gospel come to them? Through the word of truth, the gospel. Paul is about to explain more about the power of the gospel, but for now suffice it to say that this gospel is the source, the beginning of their transformation. Close your time reading this week from Ephesians 1:13-15 and pray again for the Holy Spirit to be similarly at work in you.

ThuThursdayNovNovember17th2011 Thursday, November 17

1 Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by God's will, and Timothy our brother:

    2 To the saints and faithful brothers in Christ in Colossae.

    Grace to you and peace from God our Father.

   

 3 We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, 4 for we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all the saints 5 because of the hope reserved for you in heaven. You have already heard about [this hope] in the message of truth, 6 the gospel that has come to you. (HCSB)

Why is it that Paul is constantly in prayer, thanking God for the Colossians? What qualities has he heard about that are so encouraging? Paul speaks about the faith that the people have in Jesus. How does he know about their faith? How does faith manifest itself in such a way that others can see it and thank God for it? How is your faith shown to others?

The other quality Paul calls out is the love that the Colossians have. What kind of love is he talking about? What would that love look like? What is it about their love that is so wonderful to Paul? How is love shown in such a way that other people can see it and respond to it?

Faith, love and any number of other qualities are hard to achieve under our own strength. Who empowers us to live in such a manner? Pray for God’s help to live in such a way that your love and faith are evident to all.

WedWednesdayNovNovember16th2011 Wednesday, November 16

1 This letter is from Paul, chosen by the will of God to be an apostle of Christ Jesus, and from our brother Timothy.

 2 We are writing to God’s holy people in the city of Colosse, who are faithful brothers and sisters in Christ.

   May God our Father give you grace and peace.

 3 We always pray for you, and we give thanks to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. 4 For we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and your love for all of God’s people, 5 which come from your confident hope of what God has reserved for you in heaven. You have had this expectation ever since you first heard the truth of the Good News. (NLT)

Prayer is a struggle for many, many Christians. It just doesn’t come easily or naturally. And often we feel like failures for not doing it more often. So, Paul probably pulls most of us up short when he says, just three verses into his letter, that he is “always” in prayer for the Colossians. Always! What does that mean? Is he just being nice? Or does he really mean “all the time”? What are the implications for us? Are there any implications for us?

What would it feel like if you were one of the recipients of this letter? I don’t know about you, but I feel greatly encouraged to know that people are praying for me. It’s a blessing to know that there are people who are expressing their care and love in the most significant way possible—through prayer.

But take this one step further. Who is this man who is praying for these brothers and sisters in Christ? What was his attitude previously towards Christians? What brought about such a change? What would did that communicate to the people he was leading?

Close your time today in prayer, thanking God for His work of grace in your life.

TueTuesdayNovNovember15th2011 Tuesday, November 15

1Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,

 2To the saints and faithful brothers in Christ at Colossae:

   Grace to you and peace from God our Father.

 3 We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, 4since we heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love that you have for all the saints, 5because of the hope laid up for you in heaven. Of this you have heard before in the word of the truth, the gospel, 6which has come to you, (ESV)

Letter-writing formulas have changed quite a bit over time. These days we are far more likely to send someone a text or write on their Facebook page than we are to write out a letter. For better or for worse, email has forever changed how we communicate with other people.  

Yet, look at this incredible opening from Paul. We’ve included the first few verses above, but read the whole first chapter. Paul’s love and passion for the Colossians spills out in this lengthy introduction. He is genuinely concerned for them and writes with a fatherly love and passion, even though he had probably never been to Colossae and had not planted the church there.

What are the key phrases that indicate Paul’s love for this church? What clues do we have that Paul’s concern is genuine and not just polite introduction?

Although Paul follows some traditional letter-writing patterns, his use of the phrase “grace to you and peace” would not have been used outside of Christian circles. Grace and peace. Where do these terms come from? Think through the storyline of the Bible as a whole—when Paul offers grace to his readers, what themes might that draw to mind for them?

The word “peace” is often used today in the context of military conflicts. But what about the Biblical concept of peace? Where does it come from? What kind of peace is Paul referring to?

Resist the urge to rush ahead in our study. Take the time today to wrestle with these introductory questions.

MonMondayNovNovember14th2011 Monday November 14

1 Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, and Timothy our brother,

 2 To the holy and faithful brothers in Christ at Colosse:

   Grace and peace to you from God our Father.

 3 We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, 4 because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all the saints— 5 the faith and love that spring from the hope that is stored up for you in heaven and that you have already heard about in the word of truth, the gospel 6 that has come to you. (NIV 1984)

We tend to skip over introductions in order to get to what we perceive to be “the meat” of the letters, but as we begin our study on the book of Colossians we’re going to take a week to look at these opening verses and their significance for the rest of the book.

Today I suggest you grab a real Bible and flip through the letters that begin right after the Gospels. Read the first few verses of each letter. Write down the common elements. What do these themes and elements tell us about Paul and his co-workers? What do we learn about the way that people communicated in the first century?

Turning specifically to Colossians, what is the specific context in which Paul is writing this particular letter? Who is he writing to and what is the tone of the letter? What sets it apart from Romans or 1 Corinthians?

Take some time today digging through your Bible and/or other resources looking for the answers to these questions. A thorough understanding of the context for this letter will be invaluable as you begin your work interpreting the text. If you need help or suggestions for resources to help you, let us know! We’d love to help you as you embark on this journey into Colossians.

FriFridayNovNovember11th2011 Friday, November 11



We live in a crazy, chaotic world. There is no stable ground, no level place from which we can operate. As we search for peace and calm, all too often we find ourselves clinging to all the wrong things. Before reading Colossians again today, take a moment to think through and write down the de-stabilizing forces in your life right now. What are the events, stresses or people that are generating the most anxiety?

Now, read through the entire book of Colossians. While Paul doesn’t directly address concerns such as, “my teenage son won’t listen to me,” or “I can’t find a job,” he does encourage his readers (and by extension, us too), of the solid ground to be found in the person of Jesus. If He is supreme over all things, then everything in our life comes under His authority, and that should change the way we react to the craziness of the world around us.

ThuThursdayNovNovember10th2011 Thursday, November 10



As the title of our series implies, one of the key themes in the book of Colossians is the supremacy of Christ. He is at the center of everything and should infuse every aspect of our lives. As you read through the entire book of Colossians again today, underline or write out on a separate piece of paper some of the key ideas that Paul relates about Jesus. What does Paul say about Jesus? How does Paul elevate Christ in everything? In what areas is God convicting or challenging you to re-focus your attention on Jesus?

WedWednesdayNovNovember9th2011 Wednesday, November 9



Once again I encourage you to read the entire book of Colossians today. Certain passages will start sticking in your head, and verses will begin to jump out as convicting, challenging or confusing in some way. Take a pen or pencil and circle or underline the sections the Holy Spirit is drawing you towards. Re-read them. Then, in your time of prayer, pray through them. Ask God for help to understand them. Ask for His Spirit to open your heart to receive His Word. Pray for His help to put them into action.

TueTuesdayNovNovember8th2011 Tuesday, November 8



Did you read all of Colossians yesterday? Pastor Rob and others will dive into specific passages in the coming weeks and months, but for now we need to have the big picture in mind. So, once again, set these devotionals to one side and go to the source of all wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Spend time reading Colossians. Again, resist the urge to read your study Bible notes and commentary. Simply consume the text as one big letter, and then close in a time of personal prayer and reflection.

MonMondayNovNovember7th2011 Monday, November 7



Today we start a new series based on the book of Colossians. Although the book itself is short, it’s packed full of incredible and challenging insights about God and Christ. We’ll be digging into those over the coming weeks and months, but for now we need the big picture.

This coming Sunday Pastor Brian Hogan will introduce the book of Colossians to us, providing an overview and synopsis of the key themes and ideas. As we prepare for this study, I want you to do something a bit different. Instead of reading little bite-sized chunks of Scripture each day, I encourage you to try reading this book as “a whole,” as if it were a letter, without any chapter or verse divisions. In fact, every day this week I want you to read the entire book of Colossians.

For this, you’ll need to use your own Bible (print or online); we’re not going to re-print anything here in the devotionals. So, set these devotionals to one side, grab your Bible, and read the entire book of Colossians right now. If you have a study Bible, don’t read the introduction and study notes yet. Just focus on the text. It won’t take as long as you think. Then close in a time of prayer.

FriFridayNovNovember4th2011 Friday, November 4

This coming Sunday Pastor Rob will finish the sermon series based on his book, When the Bottom Drops Out. In preparation we will spend some time this week exploring a biblical and practical perspective on grief change, drawing from Scripture as well as Pastor Rob’s personal experiences and observations. How can you offer the most comfort to a grieving friend or family member? What should you expect if your world has suddenly been turned upside down? What is often the most overlooked aspect of change?

We thank Kim Miller—a senior editor at Tyndale House Publishers who worked with Pastor Rob on the editing of his book—for preparing these devotional thoughts. Kim also attends Wheaton Bible Church, and leads a small group of sixth grade girls in Quest56.


Today we are reading and meditating on several verses from Joshua 1:1-9. The text below is taken from the New International Version, but feel free to read from the version of your choice.

 1 After the death of Moses the servant of the Lord, the Lord said to Joshua son of Nun, Moses’ aide: 2 “Moses my servant is dead. Now then, you and all these people, get ready to cross the Jordan River into the land I am about to give to them—to the Israelites. 3 I will give you every place where you set your foot, as I promised Moses. . . . 5 No one will be able to stand up against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you. 6 Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their forefathers to give them. 7 Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. 8 Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

When someone undergoes a great loss, we expect them to grieve. Too often, however, we ignore or underestimate the disequilibrium and pain that come from adapting to the transition and change that follow a major trial.

In his book, Pastor Rob talks about the night in a hospital hotel room when he first realized that Carol’s disease had already robbed them of the many simple, everyday pleasures they had enjoyed during their married life. He was grieved over this realization, but he also realized he was being forced to walk through a painful transition to a life without his best friend—a journey he never wanted to take.

Even good changes can cause anxiety. For instance, Joshua was charged with leading the Israelites through a major transition—entry into the Promised Land—just after Moses’ death. After wandering for forty years in the wilderness, one might expect Joshua to be charged up to lead the Israelites into this land of milk and honey.

Notice, however, the Lord’s command to him: “Be strong and very courageous.” Notice too that he didn’t say this once, but three times. Humanly speaking, the idea of defeating the Canaanites, who outnumbered the Israelites, seemed daunting. In fact, like all change, this major move would be hard. Joshua had to face that reality; yet he could also rest in God’s promise to go with them and give them victory.

Change is difficult; no wonder then that change also requires faith in the God who can do the impossible. Scripture, in fact, is full of God’s promises to be with us, to fight for us, to redeem us. Because God is constantly faithful, we can relax in the knowledge that God never changes and nothing takes Him by surprise. Just consider His promise to Joshua: I will give you every place where you set your foot, as I promised Moses. . . .  No one will be able to stand up against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so I will be with you; I will never leave you nor forsake you” (vv. 3, 5).

A few verses later, God reveals the secret of successful change: “Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go.” Don’t make the mistake of assuming our heavenly Father is asking us simply to memorize a list of dos and don’ts, however. He added, “Do not let this Book of the law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful” (vv. 7-8).

As Pastor Rob explains, our anchor in change is the Word of God. Yes, we must obey God and trust Him, but that will be possible only as we spend time in God’s Word. Pastor Rob writes, “Over and over I have told our church that it’s not so much what you do in the moment of crisis that determines how you will come out of it, it’s what you do in the months and years leading up to it.”[1]

You are either in the midst of a major transition now or you will face one at some point. Either way, don’t neglect your time in God’s Word. It will comfort you in trials and build the faith and confidence you need to survive any change that will come. Don’t fear transitions; be strong and courageous, knowing God stands with you!

Heavenly Father,

When change comes, my temptation may be to recklessly charge ahead or cower in fear. Instead, I pray that Your Spirit would remind me to turn to You and Your Word. Each morning, as daily pressures and worries press in on me, draw me to your Word, which offers hope and help, and which is my anchor in times of change.

In Christ’s name,

Amen.



[1] When the Bottom Drops Out, page 191.

ThuThursdayNovNovember3rd2011 Thursday, November 3

This coming Sunday Pastor Rob will finish the sermon series based on his book, When the Bottom Drops Out. In preparation we will spend some time this week exploring a biblical and practical perspective on grief change, drawing from Scripture as well as Pastor Rob’s personal experiences and observations. How can you offer the most comfort to a grieving friend or family member? What should you expect if your world has suddenly been turned upside down? What is often the most overlooked aspect of change?

We thank Kim Miller—a senior editor at Tyndale House Publishers who worked with Pastor Rob on the editing of his book—for preparing these devotional thoughts. Kim also attends Wheaton Bible Church, and leads a small group of sixth grade girls in Quest56.


Today we are reading and meditating on Proverbs 25:11. The text below is taken from the New International Version, but feel free to read from the version of your choice.

A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.

While serving in the House of Representatives in the 1840s, Abraham Lincoln became friends with a Georgia congressman named Alexander Stephens. As tensions increased between the North and South, their relationship became strained. Wanting to save the friendship and, more importantly, preserve the Union, President-elect Lincoln corresponded privately with his old colleague.

Responding to Lincoln’s appeal that Stephens assure his fellow Southerners that he did not consider himself their enemy, Stephens wrote, “I would have you understand me as being not a personal enemy, but as one who would have you do what you can to save our common country. A word fitly spoken by you now would be like apples of gold in pictures of silver.”

Though the two continued to disagree on the best way to resolve the North and South’s differences, Lincoln seems to have kept Stephens’ paraphrase of Proverbs 25:11 in mind as he led the United States. He is known to have carefully considered his words before speaking or writing—a trait that may have helped preserve the Union.

When God nudges us to reach out to a grieving person, sometimes we must use words. Solomon encourages us to be as careful in voicing our thoughts as the craftsman is as he forms precious metals into a beautiful piece of artwork. Just as a fourteen-carat golden apple set in a solid silver frame is pleasing to the eye, so a timely and thoughtful word is pleasing to an aching heart.

Pastor Rob encourages us to choose our words carefully when responded to those who are hurting. Of course, that requires really listening to our grieving friends rather than trying to come up with some nugget of wisdom to pass along while they are still speaking.

When a person’s heart is breaking, offering a simple but sincere “I’m sorry” may be enough to ignite a glimmer of hope. Acknowledging a person’s loss can be a great comfort in itself. And sometimes, if you’ve walked through the same painful path that your friend is now on, you may be the one to help them believe that they’ll make it through too.

Apt words are always welcomed. As you think through your circle of family and friends today, who could use a word of encouragement or kindness? Talk with God about how you might communicate His love to someone who needs it today.

Lord Jesus,

You once told Your disciples that “the words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life” (John 6:63). Thank You that You chose to speak to us before we ever knew how much we needed You. May we share that love with others through our words today.

In Your name,

Amen.

WedWednesdayNovNovember2nd2011 Wednesday, November 2


This coming Sunday Pastor Rob will finish the sermon series based on his book, When the Bottom Drops Out. In preparation we will spend some time this week exploring a biblical and practical perspective on grief change, drawing from Scripture as well as Pastor Rob’s personal experiences and observations. How can you offer the most comfort to a grieving friend or family member? What should you expect if your world has suddenly been turned upside down? What is often the most overlooked aspect of change?

We thank Kim Miller—a senior editor at Tyndale House Publishers who worked with Pastor Rob on the editing of his book—for preparing these devotional thoughts. Kim also attends Wheaton Bible Church, and leads a small group of sixth grade girls in Quest56.


Today we are reading and meditating on Job 2:11-13. The text below is taken from the New Living Translation, but feel free to read from the version of your choice.

11When three of Job’s friends heard of the tragedy he had suffered, they got together and traveled from their homes to comfort and console him. . . . 12When they saw Job from a distance, they scarcely recognized him. Wailing loudly, they tore their robes and threw dust into the air over their heads to show their grief. 13Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and nights. No one said a word to Job, for they saw that his suffering was too great for words.

Most of us long to reach out and comfort grieving friends, coworkers, or family members, but fear often holds us back. What if we do something wrong and make the situation worse? As a result we often stay away or suggest they, “call us if they need anything.”

Job’s friends may have been wrong about a lot of things, but their initial response to his suffering was spot on. As soon as they heard about his misfortune, they visited Job so they could express their sympathy directly. While we wouldn’t wail, tear our clothes, and throw dust in the air as they did, such actions were common expressions of grief in Job’s day.

What did Job’s friends say? Apparently they remained silent for the first seven days, the standard period of mourning following a death or disaster. Instead of talking, they simply sat with Job, offering the comfort of their presence. They didn’t try to lighten things up by telling jokes or try to comfort him by offering platitudes about God’s perfect will. No, they just made sure he wasn’t alone.

Thousands of years later, when urging the Romans to really love one another, the apostle Paul suggested a similar approach: “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. . . . Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep” (Romans 12:10, 15, NLT). When we want others to know that we hurt for them, the most powerful thing we can do is sit with them, walk with them, or perhaps even hug them.

Several years ago, one man did that in a most remarkable way. After a milk deliveryman opened fire on several young girls in a one-room Amish schoolhouse before killing himself, the Amish community rallied around the gunman’s family. One of the most stirring reports to emerge: that of an Amish neighbor who reportedly held the gunman’s sobbing father in his arms for an hour. There’s no record of words being exchanged; just of a man entering the pain of a father who’d lost his son.

In his book, Pastor Rob calls this “listening with the heart” and the “ministry of presence.” He recalls how comforted he was by friends who came to the hospital in Houston to sit with him. They didn’t say much; they simply let Rob and Carol know they weren’t alone. And when Rob needed to talk, they really listened to what he was saying from his heart.

If you’re grieving today, are you willing to let those who know you best comfort you just by being there? If you push them away, you may miss out on one means God has arranged to bring you a sense of peace. If you know someone in deep pain, have you allowed fear or discomfort to keep you away? If so, ask God to help you discern how best to communicate your care and concern to that person—whether through a visit, a phone call, or even a simple card or e-mail.

Lord Jesus,

The night before Your crucifixion, You asked a few of Your closest friends to sit with You while You prayed. That tells me that You understand how much we need each other when we’re hurting. Please help me to accept the comfort others may extend to me today. And if I’m the one who needs to reach out to a grieving friend or family member, I ask that You help me offer the ministry of my presence in a way that truly comforts him or her. Use my actions to remind them of Your great love and concern for them too.

In Your name,

Amen.


TueTuesdayNovNovember1st2011 Tuesday, November 1


This coming Sunday Pastor Rob will finish the sermon series based on his book, When the Bottom Drops Out. In preparation we will spend some time this week exploring a biblical and practical perspective on grief change, drawing from Scripture as well as Pastor Rob’s personal experiences and observations. How can you offer the most comfort to a grieving friend or family member? What should you expect if your world has suddenly been turned upside down? What is often the most overlooked aspect of change?

We thank Kim Miller—a senior editor at Tyndale House Publishers who worked with Pastor Rob on the editing of his book—for preparing these devotional thoughts. Kim also attends Wheaton Bible Church, and leads a small group of sixth grade girls in Quest56.


Today we are reading and meditating on Psalm 34:17-19. The text below is taken from the New Living Translation, but feel free to read from the version of your choice.

The Lord hears his people when they call to him for help.
      He rescues them from all their troubles.
 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted;
      he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.  

 The righteous person faces many troubles,
      but the Lord comes to the rescue each time.

Grief often makes us uncomfortable. No wonder we assume (perhaps hope is a better word) that once a person has gone through the recognized stages of grief, he or she will “get over it” and move on with life. Yet, as Pastor Rob points out in When the Bottom Drops Out, grief is profound and disorienting. It comes in waves and can be triggered again when least expected.

Clinical data supports this assessment. Any significant loss brings up feelings of longing and sadness over a long period. While the intensity of feelings generally lessens over time, a person cannot erase emotional memory. He or she cannot forget someone or something of great importance.[1]

Accepting these feelings of loss is key. But to whom can we go with our grief? Sometimes we are truly isolated, with no friend or family member available to ease our pain. Psalm 34 is a great reminder that God always opens His arms to us.

David penned this psalm while on the run from King Saul. David had sought refuge in Gath, the hometown of Goliath, but the officials were not happy about his being there. Out of fear, David “pretended to be insane, scratching on doors and drooling down his beard” (1 Samuel 21:13). In his distress, he had a choice: knowing he was innocent, he could turn from God in anger or he could turn to his heavenly Father for help.

David chose to cry out to God. In this psalm, he affirms that God hears, that He rescues, and that He is close to the brokenhearted and those who have been crushed by life. We don’t know exactly how God reached out to help David. We do know, however, that David’s troubles didn’t end once he’d left Gath. He would run to many other hideouts, nearly escaping Saul a few times, before Saul was killed in battle and David was crowned king. Yet Psalm 34 is full of hope and praise.

When we’re grieving, God doesn’t promise to magically erase the pain. He does, however, promise Himself. If you or someone you love is struggling today—perhaps even turning away from God because of anger, guilt, or pain—prayerfully read Psalm 34, asking the Lord to speak words of comfort to your soul and to the hurting souls close to you.

Heavenly Father,

Help me to realize that I am not alone today. You hear me as I cry to You for help, and I trust that You will somehow rescue me from my troubles. May You enable me to share that same hope with someone else who needs it today. I praise You, even as I hurt, for Your faithfulness, love, and compassion.

In Jesus’ name,

Amen.



[1] Mary C. Lamia, “Grief Isn’t Something to Get Over,” Psychology Today, May 1, 2011.

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